Some women enjoy vaginal fisting (having all
or most of their lover's hand in their vagina). This is DEFINITELY a case where you should
proceed only with your partner's active and ongoing encouragement and within her comfort
level. If you two would like to give vaginal fisting a try, then I'd recommend first
reading Deborah Addington's book "A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting."
However, the basic technique is as follows: with your hand palm up (and your lover on her
back or on all fours) bring your fingers and thumb together to form something that looks
like a duck bill. With massaging, and possibly gentle twisting motions, slowly tease your
hand into her vagina. If your anatomies allows it, once you get past the third knuckles
your fingers will start to gently and naturally curve back to form a fist. The whole
procedure takes time and plenty of trust, but the women and men who can take a whole hand
vaginally or anally often claim that it leads them to transcendent, ecstatic altered
states (read Trust: The Handballing Book by Bert Herrman for a discussion of anal fisting,
if that is your area of interest).
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